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Should white men just accept their girls cheating black?

Yes.

But why and what should you do about it? Don’t let jealousy and anger cause you to break up with the girl you love just because she is cheating on you with black men! That’s just stupid. Instead try to understand and accept it.

Why is she cheating?

Your penis is too small and you don’t last. Good sex requires a large cock and simply put you are not giving your girl the orgasms she deserves. You can’t do anything about your small penis but she can, that is, find black men with big cocks to fuck.

You might be satisfied with boring sex and masturbation but she isn’t. She needs real sex from real men. You can’t blame her for wanting to have a full sex life. You are not as tall, athletic, masculine or dominant as a black man can be. Do you even lift?

Interracial sex between white girls and black men is being promoted everywhere. Films, TV shows, advertisements, etc. Your girl will feel like she is missing out. Even if it’s subconscious at first, interracial sex fantasies will creep into her mind. You can blame whatever conspiracy you want but it is happening. It’s almost impossible for a normal person to fight against the billions of dollars being spent on this push.

Cheating is commonplace and the incidence is increasing. Girls tend to be open to cheating if their boyfriend or husband isn’t giving them what they need. Girls are discussing their sex life with each other, supporting and encouraging each other’s infidelity. Once one of them has gone black it won’t be long before the rest of them do. You don’t want your girl to be the only one in the group that isn’t cheating with hung black guys.

Websites and blogs are much more extreme that the mainstream media. Porn also of course. Girls are being exposed to this daily. The message they are getting is that not only is cheating acceptable, but that it’s desirable, and even that white boys secretly support it. The idea that going black is a sexy and hot way to spice up a relationship is gaining ground. Some girls even think their boyfriend or husband will be disappointed if he finds out they aren’t cheating with black men. Perversely her love for you could be the ultimate reason why she cheats black.

How to deal with it

Start using interracial porn. Avoid any porn with white men. You need to change your idea of sex from whatever it is now to big black cocks fucking white girls. Giving yourself orgasms to those images and videos helps to form a positive association. Many white girls already see getting blacked as the only real sex that counts and you need to think the same way.

Consume as much cuckold propaganda as possible. Just as with interracial porn use masturbation to train yourself to fall in line. Join in if you want. Help other white boys to understand.

Focus on her pleasure rather than being selfish. You love her so much that you want her to enjoy sex. Imagine her powerful orgasms pushing her into a state of bliss. Think about how happy and fulfilled she is.

Big cocks are hot. Stop denying this. You don’t watch porn with small penises. You want to see girls sucking and fucking big impressive cocks. You want to see big cum shots. Imagine her doing the sucking and fucking. Imagine those big loads pumped over her pretty face and breasts or inside her pussy and ass. So hot. It’s nowhere near as sexy if you replace those big black cocks with your unimpressive penis. Admit it: if you get off on masturbating to big cocks then it’s ok for her to fuck them.

She will start withholding sex from you, not because she doesn’t love you, but because sex with her black boyfriends is so much more satisfying. This is big hurdle to overcome but every cloud has a silver lining: it allows you to focus more on masturbation. It’s a virtuous circle as the more you do it the more you will accept her cheating and the lack of sex. You will learn to enjoy her coming back to you with a cum-filled pussy.

You are a good provider. Your hard work keeps her in the lifestyle that she deserves. Your money is buying all those sexy clothes and lingerie that she uses to seduce black men. Let yourself be turned on by that. When she models outfits for you imagine how hard it will make them and just how savagely they will ravish her. You should be proud of that.

The result

Your relationship will be radically improved. Both of you will be happy and sexually fulfilled. You will have great masturbation sessions while she is out having amazing sex with dominant black men behind your back. No more arguments, stress or frustration because of rubbish sex!

Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Premature Ejaculation University Winter 2018 curriculum Premature Ejaculation Concepts 101 Professor Maximus vanSnelst

Lecture 9: PE Fetish vs. SPH and penis size

Welcome back, students!

In this lecture we’re going to talk about the apparent correlation between an interest in the Premature Ejaculation fetish and an interest in SPH, which stands for Small Penis Humiliation. And we’ll take about whether the PE fetish/fascination in general is related to small penis size. Perusing posts, captions, and followers of premature ejaculation issues, one cannot help but detect an overlap between the two. Captions often combine premature ejaculation and small dick size. Commentary often does as well. And many SPH enthusiasts also list PE as an interest/fetish, and vice versa. So are the two related?

Is PE a matter of friction?

Let’s start with looking at premature ejaculation in general. As we all know, PE may be caused by a variety of issues. Among them are heredity, age, psychological issues, formative experiences, or biological/medical matters. There is, however, one constant that brings upon the male orgasm, and that is friction. That’s true for masturbation as well as for intercourse. Without friction, orgasm doesn’t happen. Sure, sometimes an orgasm occurs even if you’re totally still. But that’s because some sort of friction got you excited enough to be ready for orgasm.  

Since friction is an essential part of orgasm, one could reasonably expect premature ejaculation to primarily be an issue for the larger penis. Why? Because, given the same size vagina, a larger penis will experience more tightness and thus stronger friction. And the more friction/tightness during intercourse, the more likely is a premature ejaculation. On the other hand, the smaller the penis, the less friction and tightness, and the less likely is PE. That seems logical.

Or is the fetish a matter of (small) size?

So why then the apparent correlation between smaller size, SPH and PE? Since physics, mechanics and friction dynamics strongly suggest that there are more guys with large dicks who are premature ejaculators, why does it appear to be(come) a fetish primarily for those with smaller ones?

Is perhaps the thrill with humiliation the common factor? Some consider it deliciously embarrassing and humiliating to have (or pretend to have) a small penis and it’s also embarrassing and humiliating to be a premature ejaculator. Then again, there are other humiliating things that are fetishized, yet one doesn’t see them combined with PE.

Here at PEU we have interviewed numerous students for their opinions and theories on the matter. Here are some examples of how respondents answered:

“They’re both a fetish for being humiliated for having an inadequate penis. Whether the penis is too small to please a woman, or just doesn’t last long enough to please her, it’s a cock that serves no purpose.”

“Humiliation and inadequacy seem to be a common theme among many of my blog followers. I see more likes when my captions emphasize these views. You can add cuckolding and interracial themes to small dick fantasies. I would say there is certainly enough evidence to support the connection of all of these to the PE fetish.”

“My evidence is only antidotal, but I have found no correlation between penis size and PE, with roughly equal numbers for large and small.”

“PE is stress/adrenaline-related. But if you looked only at the physical aspect, a smaller penis has the same number of nerve endings over a smaller surface area which should result in more sensitivity and therefore more PE.

“I have spoken to lots of guys over the years about PE. And there is a link between small penis and lack of staminia.”

“3” penis and a 8" penis have the same amount of nerve endings. Obviously more spread out over an 8" penis than the 3" penis. So the smaller condensed area for those nerve ending do result in more chance of PE.”

This is just a small sample of answers. And just to make matters even more complex, let’s not forget that having PE is by no means the same as having a PE fetish. Millions of men suffer from PE and hate the conditions, whereas a small minority like being PE, and some who are not PE at all desire to become so.  

Where does SPH come into play?

Penis size is a given. You are what you are. That’s one thing you really cannot change (without resorting to drastic measures). Penis size is on a bell curve just like height and weight, bell curve meaning most people are average, increasingly fewer are on the far left (small) and far right (large) size of the size distribution curve. So most males never give penis size much thought because they are average. It is only those who are very large (will she freak? will I fit without hurting her?) or very small (can I get in? will she laugh at me? will I disappoint her?) who think a lot about penis size.  

SPH – Small Penis Humiliation — is defined as a syndrome where a male gets a sexual thrill over having, or pretending/wishing to have, a small penis. The sexual thrill is based on the humiliation factor, and the humiliation can take many forms.

It can be self-erotic, as in getting excited over the very thought of having a small penis, contemplating what it means, feeling sexually stimulated over the humiliation of not measuring up, imagining sexual encounters where the lack of size becomes an issue, and just generally not being quite a full male.

It can be interactive, as in actively seeking contact with others over penis size. This can be discussing the syndrome with other males who feel the same, getting aroused simply by the conversation. Or it can take the form of seeking actual reaction from females via chat, vidcam session, sex lines, etc.

Or it can be other thrills, like having to struggle entering a pussy, or being unable to do so in the first place.

Why is the thought of not measuring up sexually stimulating to some men? And why is SPH quite common while there is no female equivalent? Small Breast Humiliation? Loose Pussy Humiliation? Those don’t exist, even though there are many women who are into erotic degrading and humiliation. 

So what makes SPH so unique? What is the thrill over not measuring up? What could it possibly be? Why should there be a thrill over coming up short, no pun intended, in something that is a primary pleasure in life, and a primary source of not only good feelings, but also self-confidence and self-esteem?

And why is it that many males who are into SPH are not actually small?

These are all interesting questions. However, one thing is becoming somewhat clear. Both PE and small penis size can be considered sexual inadequacies. Both can be experienced as being humiliating or embarrassing. So if an individual finds sexual humiliation arousing, and that applies to a surprisingly number of males, then finding excitement in both PE and small penis size becomes much more understandable. More humiliation is better for some males, and for them the one-two punch of having a small dick AND PE is like having a shot of Tequila with a beer chaser.

Bottom line here, dear students? It doesn’t matter. Fetishes are not rational. They just are. They can bring us great pleasure. Physical realities are almost secondary. A man who is not small can get great pleasure out of the concept of small penis humiliation. Just as a male who does not have PE can get great pleasure over desiring to be PE. And it seems pretty clear that humiliation seems related both to PE and SPH.

It’s all about humiliation

Why are some people turned on by humiliation in the first place? Another good question. Almost no one likes to be humiliated in any part of life other than sex. So that’s something to think about. However, domination and submission themselves are deeply ingrained in the human experience. Both are driving forces of civilization. Conquest and yielding yielding and conquest; two sides of the same coin.

I’d love to hear your views on all this! – Professor Maximus vanSnelst