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Okay! Phewww! This blog is specially for girls and yes once I tried to save one girl from a bad guy and my results are hahahaha betrayal.

Today I will be talking about Patriarchy, Matriarchy, Feminism and alot more (after all bangali ami)

Patriarchy:-

When the world/country/state etc is under the control of men thats is called a patriarchy.

Matriarchy:-

When the world/country/state etc is under the control of a women is called a matriarchy.

Feminism:-

Demand of women to have equal rights like men. Demand for having equality between men and women.

Now lemme begin~

Girls, we have seen boys or men with high ego. Well very well. They (those boys or men) use the term "feminism" whenever girls or women have said something logical which is basically against their opinion or comfort zone. There are people who basically glorify Animal and Kabir Singh.

Living in a patriarchal country I have understood that men want women to be under their feet. According to them "Women should serve their husbands only", "Women are only made for cooking, cleaning, giving birth and taking care of the child", "women should be under the feet of every men".. And believe me, there are women who actually support these because they are born with these absurd believes.

If we take a look into Mahabharat, Draupadi was very much respected by everyone. She was the reason why Kurukshetra came into existance. Kurukshetra was the war of getting back the rights, to be bring back dharma and many more... Duryodhan was not at all a god person. One minutes silence for those who glorify Duryodhan

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(Silence is over, lets come back)

Alpha males, chapri guys says these to those women who never support their shitty opinions like For example the most common dialogue "these are girls/women are always like this, they will never change, stay away from them"..... Ohhh hello babumoshai (not even in the mood to respect them but still I have self respect) the ones who are educated and have common sense will stay away from you all....

I have high respect for the men who are feminist like Raja Ram Mohon Roy, Rahul Bose, Salman Rushdie, Farhan Akhtar, Javed Akhtar, Anirban Bhattacharya and lot more. And to be very honest a rational and sensible man will be a feminist. Movies like Gangubai Kathiyawadi, Thappad, Darlings, Ladies v/s Ricky Bahl etc are example how chapri men or alpha males derail Innocent women..

I am not against boys.. And stop spreading shits like "Boys never cry, should never be emotional, always be strong" .... They are human beings and they are allowed to cry.. And boys can also be Househusbands.. If women can be a housewife then men can..

I will never be NORMATIVE, and if those toxic chapri alpha men cannot tolerate me, I am very fine being in their block list and I am very happy that I am not a part of their life or friend circle... ( they require immense therapy or ranchi pagla garod, only those toxic men) Thank you so much...

Thats all (inspired from dhruv rathi)

@zakhmpemarham @dopebanditlightpie @enigma-the-mysterious @zindagi-se-darte-ho @ok-jaanu @intellectual6666 @janaknandini-singh999 @jukti-torko-golpo

knock knock

Who's back 🔍 on my blog.

Welcome backkkkkk

Myyy goddddd!! Thank you soooo much shyammmmm!! 🦋🦋🦋🦋 I will have this for sureeee🐇✨🌷

What if?!

What if i meet you again? or we meet again? Maybe on a gloomy day you are travelling in a bus and i get up and we see each other and suppose i don't recognize you, will you come to me and say "hey! umm- how are you? Are you able to recall me?"

or

what if i see you roaming around with your friends during Durga Pujo and i pass by and we make eye contact? will you stop and come to me saying, "long time no see? how are you?"

or

what if we crash into each other and our belongings fall from our hands and we help each other pick them up? will you look into my eyes are say, "are you by any chance, hiya?"

or

what if we are watching a movie in the same theatre sitting beside each other unaware of our presence and when the lights turn on during the interval you see me and i don't? will you call me?

or

you will just do nothing? will you just look at me and move away? will you just pass with your friends? will you just pick up my belongings and go away? or you will just look and me and ignore?

i don't know!

~KONKALITOLA, KOPAYI NODI & JOMIDAR BARI~

Shantiniketan Trip:- Day-2

Konkalitola Mondir:-

Beautiful temple. My family didn't give puja because this year my grandmother expired, so "ashuch" . (curse in english I guess, don't know) I was sitting inside the temple area and saw that "Shautali Dance" was performed by the tribal women. I danced with them, clicked photos. I danced so well that they were calling me continuously🤭. I really had fun their. I even did my make up inside the temple area (because Pinush was giving me rush and yes girls take time to get ready). While doing my makeup I felt like the song "Chandi Jaisa Rang Hai Tera". I know I am not even a bit of that song but still I felt. (I am ugly as hell🙂 but still I felt like chandi jaisa rang). Anyways really felt calm and happy while dancing.

Kopayi Nodi:-

Rabindranath Thakur composed a poem "Amader Choto Nodi" which was based on Kopayi Nodi. Its really a "choto nodi, chole aake bake". I have nothing so say something about this nodi because its really beautiful. Speechless I am.

আমাদের ছোটো নদী চলে বাঁকে বাঁকে বৈশাখ মাসে তার হাঁটু জল থাকে। পার হয়ে যায় গোরু, পার হয় গাড়ি, দুই ধার উঁচু তার, ঢালু তার পাড়ি। চিক্ চিক্ করে বালি, কোথা নাই কাদা, একধারে কাশবন ফুলে ফুলে সাদা। কিচিমিচি করে সেথা শালিকের ঝাঁক, রাতে ওঠে থেকে থেকে শেয়ালের হাঁক।

~ রবীন্দ্রনাথ ঠাকুর

(I have posted a picture of "Bonolota". It is a villa which is named after Bonolota.)

Jomidaar Bari:-

Several shooting took place in this place. Its really huge. Shiv Pujo takes place in this house. I though that the Zee5 webseries "Shwetkali" shooting was done here but I was wrong. Anyways. I even clicked some photos inside the jomidar bari. I felt like I reached heaven, its was vintage and beautiful.

Thats all about day two. Had a lot of fun and gathered a lot of knowledge.

I bet day 3 blog will capture the heart of every reader.

Lemme tag my favorite Bengali's as well as other mutuals

@intellectual6666 @choppedphilosopherharmony @jukti-torko-golpo @piyakebazaar @anarkali-disco-chali @shyam-kariya @aapki-shayara @aapka-shayar @thecaffeinatedresearcher @enigma-the-mysterious

"~চল রাস্তায় সাজি ট্রাম লাইন আর কবিতায় শুয়ে কাপ্লেট, আহা উত্তাপ কত সুন্দর তুই থার্মোমিটারে মাপলে, হিয়া টুপটাপ জিয়া নস্টাল, মিঠে কুয়াশায় ভেজা আস্তিন~"

Being a girl of Kolkata always made me feel good. I never regret the fact that I am from Kolkata (even though it lacks employment) because I am so in love with this city. Though I live in barrackpore but kolkata has occupied a special corner in my heart. Roaming around Central Avenue, Rash bihari avenue, Shakespeare Sarini, Coffee House, Cathedral Church, Victoria, Dhakuriya, and what not.

I have a weird wish to fulfill and that is, when I will be in college I will roam around to view the simple beauty of Kolkata all alone (since I don't have much knowledge about the road/street which leads to what) to gather some sense about the city. Wearing a simple saree, earring, teep (bindi), churi, and earphones on, which will play all types of bangla gaan (je kawta din and abar phire ele is a must, will be repeated).

Weird i know but I want to enjoy some part of my life/day being alone, roaming around the streets of Kolkata which will give me some degree of piece. Thats all for today

our last interaction was really cute

i wish we were mutuals

Kaaab bhai?? After maybe 10months I came to tumblr.. Who are you broooo?

YAYYYYYYYYY

Mauj

hiiii sending you the tumblr hug🫂🤍

pass it on to as many mutuals as you want to make someone's day better :D

AHHHHHH!! I CAN'T TAKE SOO MUCH LOVE!! I HAVE REALLY GOT THE BEST MUTUALS

Tagging them

@intellectual6666 @choppedphilosopherharmony @aapki-shayara @aapka-shayar @shyam-kariya @enigma-the-mysterious @thecaffeinatedresearcher @jukti-torko-golpo @zindagi-se-darte-ho @anarkali-disco-chali @arjokonna @shadowseductress

Which song/s best sums up your personality?

If I say about one song then:-

If I say "songs" then:-

what is your ideal type of guy/man? You are so into art, film, drama, theatre, book and other stuffs so this is my question to you.

Anirban Bhattacharya

.....is my ideal type. He is the person of charm, intellect, education. I learned alot from this person. If I ever date someone, I would surely date someone like him.

He has captured my whole heart after Uttam Kumar and Shah Rukh Khan. He is the one who gave the inspiration to read Bengali books and to cherish the fact that "Yes I am Bengali".

I lose words when I write or think about him. He told in one of his interview that "I don't have to choose someone, life is not a toy shop that I will go and find my ideal type and when my works are done I will throw it off" . If someone say these things obviously being head over heals is not a crime..

Lots of love Anirban..📜