Okay Y'all, Going Forward, This Is What We're Doing.

“but they matured!”

Of course they did.

I don’t think people understand that when it comes to the dynamic of an abuser and their victim, the abuser can always move on and change at any time.

All because of one simple reason; they weren’t the ones that had to be on the receiving end of the trauma.

The abusers can move on and live their happy lives without ever having to think twice about their pasts, chalk it up to ‘them being kids and not knowing any better’ while the victim has to live with the burnt of that trauma for the rest of their life.

It’s why the argument that the marauders ‘grew up and matured’ always falls flat to my ears because it always feels as if it’s used as an excuse to blame the victim for not being able to let go of their trauma and ‘get over it’, especially because severus was never shown to have ever had a good support system for him ‘getting over it’ to have ever been a possibility.

Even more-so when it’s shown that the marauders hadn’t changed or matured at all.

Did they ever apologize?

Did they ever try to atone for their actions?

No, they never did. They simply chose to forget about it and move on with their lives. Because it did not affect them.

They grew up, they got married, they enjoyed life, and when they died their sins were wiped clean and they were martyred and worshipped by the entire wizarding world.

It’s no wonder that Severus carried as much bitterness as he did.

Fake screenshot from the Half-Blood Prince!

IM CRAZY IM INSANEEEE anw me thinks current yonal is hot idk what else to tell ya like if i was inbetween him and snape i would Evaporate

every day i am percieved™️

Glenn Close from the Dungeons and Daddies Podcast (aka DNDads) gets called Babygirl!

A horrifying thought for you at 6am:

So I'm autistic. A part of my experience with autism is hearing this constant ringing in my ears that intensifies around electronics, especially high-wattage items like my desktop pc. Sometimes it intensifies on its own, like if I'm disassociating or thinking hard. So what am I hearing when it's dead silent, like when I'm outside?

It's my thoughts. I can hear the electric pulses in my head. And I haven't been able to stop thinking about this.

More tobias and russ!

(Edit: i forgot to draw the jacket details. Dw they are still canon im just dumb 😭)

Don’t touch people’s stim toys or comfort objects without permission. They can be incredibly important to neurodivergent people and taking them away or even just touching them can make people uncomfortable or panicky.

If you do want to try a stim toy or touch a comfort object, ask politely, be prepared for the answer to be no, and most importantly accept a non-verbal no. People might be uncomfortable saying yes but not feel like they’re allowed to say no. And if they do say yes, give the item back as soon as the person who has let you try it indicates in any way (verbally or otherwise) that they want you to stop touching it.

They are all Boomers and don't you forget it

you buy 1 cd it's over... you want 100 now