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for insecure angels

your partner still loves you even when they are away.

your friends still loves you even when they are away.

they will sill love you even if they have other friends.

they weill still love you even if you are not okay.

they will still love you even if they don’t reply immediately.

they will still love you even if you don’t reply them immediately.

they will still love you even if they can’t talk in a exact moment.

they will still love you even they are not around you 24/7.

they will still love you even if you don’t love some things about yourself.

“they are not replying!”

MAYBE

they fell asleep.

they are busy.

they don’t feel okay to talk right now.

they had to immediately leave for some reason.

they are studying.

they are working.

they are practicing a hobby.

they forgot to reply by distraction.

THEY STILL LOVE YOU.

“they are distant!”

MAYBE

they are going through a hard time.

they are hurt by something you said or did (don’t get paranoid because of it, try to talk to them).

they are very busy with work or studies.

they are planning something good for you.

THEY STILL LOVE YOU.

“i made a mistake and hurt them.” you can always apologize! everyone makes mistakes.

“they made a mistake and hurt me.” tell your feelings to them.

“they will leave me, i know it.” check if it’s not your paranoid thoughts acting out and tell your feelings to them, we can’t be 100% sure if someone will abandon us.

“they have someone better in their lives.” i personally don’t believe in “someone better”, because we all have good and bad aspects, but it doesn’t even matter if they have someone better, because they are with you because they like you and not because of someone else or whatever.

“i’m not enough.” YOU ARE ENOUGH FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.

“i’m ugly.” YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.

- Everything I said relates to healthy relationships only. I don’t support abusive relationships and please take care of yourself and look for help if you are being abused.

This message is for anyone scrolling through tumblr right now feeling that uncomfortable settling in your stomach and chest.

It's heavy and impulsive. It runs down your arms and into your hands. It tingles and it feels so scary.

Tears forming in your eyes for no real reason.

You feel empty inside, maybe. Hollow because of the quiet of the night or simply the quiet in your mind.

You are not alone.

Be at ease, my friend.

I love you. I am proud of you. I'm happy you're alive and here to read this message from me. You mean so much to so many people. I just wanted to make sure you know.

Take a deep breath. Drink lots of water and get plenty of rest. Maybe eat something if you haven't recently and take in some sunshine, if you can.

I believe in you.

❤🧡💛💚💙💜

If you or a loved one is a lesbian who settled for reading copious amounts of mlm fanfiction in middle school because there are a total of 3 well-written wlw fanfics and mlm fanfic was the only gay media available to you at a young age, you may be eligible for financial compensation!

sapphic//guide

Another guide for people venturing out into the amazing world of lesbian music! 

70s

A woman’s love by Alix Dobkin

Back in the closet again by Lavender Country

Fantasy girl by Alix Dobkin

Living with lesbians by Alix Dobkin

Sweet woman by Cris Williamson

Talking lesbian by Alix Dobkin

The lesbian power authority by Alix Dobkin

To a woman by Lavender Country

View from gay head by Alix Dobkin

80s

Crimson and Clover by Joan Jett

I spent my last 10.00 by Two Nice Girls

Madmoiselle by Lucie Blue Tremblay

Maria by Teresa Trull

More women by Saada Bonaire

Pretty boys and pretty girls by Book of Love

Rosalie by Teresa Trull

Sweet jane by Two Nice Girls

Valerie by Quarterflash

90s

½ naked by bitch and Animal

32 lines by Sophie B hawkins

Best cock on the block by Bitch and Animal

Buy her candy by Sleater-Kinney

Drag king bar by Bitch and Animal

Feminist housewives by Bitch and Animal

Moment of glory by disappear fear

Only straight girls wear dresses by CWA

she’s my baby by Mazzy Star

she says by Ani Difranco

The queer song by Two Nice Girls

Two little girls by Ani Difranco

Damn I wish I was your lover by Sophie B Hawkins

I kissed a girl by Jill Sobule

If it isn’t her by Ani Difranco

If you should try to kiss her by dressy Bessy

P.U.N.K girl by Heavenly 

Acoustic

Always this way by Laura Marling

Cardigan sweater by Jasmine Thompson

Closet femme by Kate Reid

Eden with my eve by Jen Cloher

Dark chocolate by Jamie Anderson

Dressed in black by Gossip

Elise by The Greeting Committee 

Homo song by Mara Levi

Netflix by be steadwell

Not worth hiding by Alex the Astronaut

On the road to BC by Grace Petrie

She’s not you by Grace Petrie

Sunshine by Grace Petrie

Valentines day by Mal Blum

Alt pop

Cloud 69 by Lowell

Dreamboat by Mirah

Flaming hot cheetos by Clairo

Gay sex by be steadwell

Girl by Sobs

Hot like the room by My Body

Kool girl by Seasalt

LGBT by Lowell

Life time warranty by cyberbully Mom Club

My baby loves me by Cyberbully Mom Club

Pretty girls by Sequin Sally

Room by Palehound

Sappho by Frankie Cosmos

Sweet girl by Nicole Dollanganger

Survival by Adult Mom

The modern art museum of the modern kiss goodbye by Lovers

Think about girls sometimes by Amber-Simone

Country

Caroline by Girlyman

Come what may by Daisy O’Connor

Follow your arrow by Kacey Musgraves

Girl crush by Little Big Town

Like me by Chely Wright

Venus by Anaïs Mitchell

Covers

Blue velvet by Lana del Rey

Candy girl by Riverdale Cast

Can’t feel my face by Kina Grannis

Hold on we’re going home by Pia Mia

Jessie’s girl by Mary Lambert

my kind of woman by Poppy

Self control by Lauren Sanderson

She’s a lady by lion babe

Take me to church by Grace Gaustad

Talia by girl in red

Valerie by Amy Winehouse

Early 00s pop

Beautiful girl by Sophie B Hawkins

Eve’s mouth by Alix Olson

Honey jar by Doria Roberts

I tell myself everything by the Blow

Like girls by the Blow

Marry me  by Tender Forever

she by Jen Foster

There’s a girl by The Ditty Bops

Electropop

Bestie by Sizzy Rocket

Boys aside by Sofya Wang

Flowers for Anna by Ames

Girl i met on the internet by GIRLI

Girls by De La Montagne

Green line killer by See

IILWMBF by Sälen

Money to burn by Ladyhawke

My boots by Lights

Only a girl by Gia

Pynk by Janelle Monae

Folk

Beautiful girl by Sophie B Hawkins

Black eyed girl by Bitch and Animal

Caroline by Girlyman

Drag king bar by Bitch and Animal

Dressed in black by Gossip

Grace by Jamie Anderson

Greatness by Jen Foster

Hey Rose by Girlyman

I can be a lesbian by Judy Small

If it isn’t her by Ani Difranco

In or out by Ani Difranco

Young james dean by Girlyman

French

Ce soir je veux une fille by ELITA Univers

Deux anglaises by Clarika

Deux ils, deux elles by Lara Fabian

Elle by Shy’m

Elle a dit by Mylene farmer

Elle a un truc by Virgule

Elle este belle la vie by Virgule

Entre elle et moi by Catherine Lara

j’ai recontre Marie by Lynda Lemay

Le plus beau de quartier by Carla Bruni

Les femmes by Yelle

Une femme avec une femme by Mecano

Hard rock

Blue collar sex kitten by Lauren Ruth Ward  

Butch in the streets by Tribe 8

Carrie (i want a girl) by Moaning Lisa

Checking out your babe by Tribe 8

Femme bitch top by Tribe 8

Goth girls are easy by Lesbian Bed Death

Me & her by Heavens to Betsy

Queer for you by The degenerettes

Rebel girl by Bikini Kill

Rockerchick by Lipstick Homicide

She’s a gun by The Greeting Committee

Steal yr gf by God is my Copilot

So-called str8 grrrl by Gina Young

Vaccines made me gay by GRLwood

Hiphop

Dripcity by IAMDDB

Get right by Kodie Shane

I’m still at the bar by Tiara Thomas

Kissing pink by Kodie Shane

Lick it by God-des and She

Normal by Kodie Shane

Ooo by IAMDDB

Retro 1’s by Tiara Thomas

Runway by Kodie Shane

Shade by IAMDDB

Sing to her by Kodie Shane

Summertime by Kreayshawn

Tease by Tyra B

Twins by Kodie Shane

Watercolor roses by Ness Nite

Independent

0108 by Nakala

Blinders by Phem

Boys/girls by Torrey Mercer

Dear future wife by a quaint sound

Dear Sappho by Circa. 

Dyke bars never last by Sapphic Lasers

Elderly lesbians by Sara Renberg

girls by girl in red

i wanna be your girlfriend by girl in red

Mango by Nakala 

OTT by Nakala

Radiant warmth by Miki Ratsula

Red by Miki Ratsula

She interlude by Nakala

The only gay person by Sara Renberg

Vixen by Destroy Boys

Italian

Ci vediamo a casa by Dulcenera

Due donne by Paola Turci

Eva Eva by Subsonica

Io e Maria by Paola Turci

La differenza by Mariella Nava

La strada per la felicita by Bianca Atzei

Lei by Gianna Nannini

lei e lei by Pooh

Pensieri timidi by Jessica Morlacchi

Resta Come Sei by Dulcenera

Jazz

Are you gonna be my girl by Addie Hamilton

Edie windsor by Zoë Lewis

Hey there Delilah by Scott Bradlee’s postmodern jukebox

I don’t do boys by Elektra

It wasn’t me by Scott Bradlee’s postmodern jukebox

Lipstick by Track IX

Poison by Shoshana Bean

Prove it on me blues by Ma Rainey

Pop ballads

damn I wish i was your lover by sophie B. hawkins

Elizabeth by zoe Lewis

Explosion by Zolita

Girlfriend by Kitty

Katie by Von Grey

she by Jen Foster

She keeps me warm by Mary Lambert

she’s not him by Miley Cyrus

Strangers by Halsey

sweet woman by Cris Williamson

Talia by King Princess

Taking off all my clothes by Heidi Marie Vestreheim

Portugese

A forca da mulher sapatona by GA31

Androgena by GA31

Coisas de menina by Luen

Estereo by Preta Gil

Eu comi a madonna by Ana Carolina

Homens e mulheres by Ana Carolina

Lesbica futuristica by GA31

Totalmente lesbica by GA31

Vestido estampado by Ana Carolina

Videogames eroticos by GA31

Pure pop

1950 by King Princess

Bad at love by Halsey

B.I.G by Caitlyn Scarlett

Bitches by Tove Lo

Blow my mind by Frankie Simone 

Boyfriend by Tegan and Sara

BWU by Tegan and Sara

Cherry by Rina Sawayama

Curious by Hayley Kiyoko

Daisy by Zedd

Girls by Beatrice Eli

Girls by rita Ora

Girls like girls by Hayley Kiyoko

HNLY by Hayley Kiyoko

I kissed a girl by Katy Perry

I want her by Blind Fury

Know your name by Mary Lambert

Like heaven by Zolita

New you by Zolita

Now I’m all messed up by Tegan and Sara

Only a girl by Gia

Playinwitme by Kyle ft Kehlani

Sleepover by Hayley Kiyoko

Smoke weed eat pussy by Angie

Queer by Frankie Simone

Pop rock

All the things she said by t.A.T.u

I wanna bf with a car by Kate Nash

Intergalactic lesbian love songs by Atomic Swindlers

Juliet of the spirits by the B-52′s

Katie by Underline the Sky

Lesbian vampyres from outer space by scary bitches

Melody Dean by Amanda Palmer

No kings by The Total Bettys

Play the field by Partner

Sister by Kate Nash

The ellen page by Partner

Rap

212 by Azealia Banks

Becoming myself by Domo Wilson

Bets by Chynna

Bonnie by Young M.A

Box by Siya

Dreaming outro by Siya

Good girl by Domo Wilson

got her own by Syd

Hot sauce by Young M.A

I wanna be me by Domo Wilson

JOOTD by Young M.A

Just sayin/I tried by The Internet

Lowkey by Dev

New girl by be steadwell

No go by Temper

Normal by Kodie Shane

White lilies/white lies by Angel Haze

R&B

Body by Syd

Conversations by Lauren Sanderson

Dive by Tiffany Gouche

Her by eery

Honey by Kehlani

Kiss my girlfriend by Etta Bond

OTT by Nakala

Red rum melody by Tiffany Gouche

She interlude by Nakala

Sides by Nakala

Travel behavior by Tiffany Gouche

Where do you go by Charlotte Day Wilson

Soft Rock

Boyfriend by Marika Hackman

Elderly lesbians by Sara Renberg

Ex party by Sara Renberg

My gf the tv by Gina Young

No kings by The Total Bettys

The only gay person by Sara Renberg

Spanish

Amor entre mujeres by Dalila

Dry martini by Luna Blu

Las bragas by Veronica Orozco

Linda rosa by Maria Gadu

Mujer contra mujer by Mecano

Sol, noche Y luna by Chenoa

Theatrical

An old fashioned love story by Alix Korey

Boinked the bride by Ember Swift

Changing my major by Emily Skeggs

She used to be mine by Sara Bareilles

When I kissed the teacher by Lily James

100 good questions to ask your friends at 4:02 am when you can’t sleep (can also function as an asks list)

Are you bothered by your cosmic insignificance?

Do you mourn for a place or person you’ve never known?

Do you really think there is somebody for everybody?

Do you place any value in gender roles?

Do you have to be related to be family?

Are your platonic relationships just as valuable as romantic or family ones?

Are you in love? Do you want to be?

Do you think you can put love into categories (family, platonic, romantic, etc.) or is it just one general sensation?

Would you be happy with a life without romance? 

Are you always going to be a little in love with somebody?

Would you change your appearance if you could?

Do you have the feeling you’ve lost something you might have had in another life - whether it be a person, a place, a world, a language, etc.?

Do you believe in reincarnation?

Would you want to be reincarnated?

Do you think you’re special, or just another person amongst billions? Can you be both?

Do theoretical ethical debates have any value? Is it important people discuss ethical dilemmas, e.g. the trolley problem?

Did you have imaginary friends? Do you still have them?

Are you religious? Do you think your religion is ‘correct’?

If you aren’t religious, do you wish you were? Why?

Do you want a grand adventure?

Do you have somebody, whether it be a friend or stranger, who you think you could have loved if the circumstances were different?

How long does it take you to fall in love with somebody?Is the sensation of ‘falling in love’ or ‘being in love’ better?

Is love about convenience or something more? Can it be about both?

Do you think you really understand your gender and sexuality?

How fluid is your concept of gender and sexuality?

What’s the most life-changing choice you’ve made so far?

Are you afraid of growing old?

Would you want to live forever? How about for a billion years, a million, a millennium, a century?

Do you believe in some form of god/s?

Are your choices fated or of your own free will?

Do you have a hunch about how you’re going to die?

Do you believe in star signs?

How old do you have to be to be considered an adult?

Was your childhood happy?

What are you missing from your life?

Have you ever met someone who had a very similar personality to your own? Did you get along?

Do opposites attract?

Is your life what you expected it would be five years ago?

Do you know what you want out of life?

What makes a person ‘good’? Are you a ‘good person’?

What fundamentally matters do you?

Is freewill an illusion?

Do you create art? How do you define art?

How often do you lie? Is all lying inherently bad? Are you generally truthful?

Do you want to be remembered after your death? What for?

Is true world peace ever possible?

Do you have to suffer to truly understand the human condition? What is the human condition? How can you really experience it?

Are you free? Will you ever be? Can anyone be truly free?

Do you hold yourself to higher standards than you hold others?

What do you expect from a friend or partner?

What question could you ask to find out the most about a person?

Do you justify all your beliefs or have you just inherited/absorbed some?

Which beliefs do you have that is most likely to be wrong?

Can human really understand the complete nature of the universe, space and time?

Is a conscious what makes someone a person?

What do you think about artificial intelligence?

Do you thinks humans are obsessed with escapism (books, video games, movies, etc.)? Are you looking for an escape? Do you think that’s a bad thing?

Are we eventually going to ‘run out’ of new combinations for music, art, language, etc.? Is there a limit to human creativity?

What do you think the next era of music will be like?

What do you think the next era of fashion will be like?

Do we live in tumultuous times, or do they just seem so strange because we’re living in them?

Would you want to meet a clone of yourself? Would you like them?

How confident are you, really?

How consistent is your perception of time?

What age should people be allowed to vote? Should children and teenagers be allowed to vote?

How do you feel about the idea ‘an eye for an eye’?

What’s the worse thing a person can be?

How do you feel about monogamy?

Can you be in love with someone and still fall in love with someone else?

What’s the tragedy of your life?

Would your life make a good play?

Should people be prosecuted for crimes that weren’t considered crimes at the time?

Would you fight for your country? Do you feel a sense of loyalty to your nation?

Do you believe in gender equality in every aspect?

Do we have a moral obligation to care for others? To what extent?

Do you crave approval and/or praise?

Is there comedy in all tragedy and tragedy in all comedy?

Are you ever going to be satisfied?

When you are sad, do you listen to music that conveys your emotions or music that makes you happy?

Is your music organised by mood or sensation or do you just listen to everything at any time?

Would you marry a friend if they needed you to (e.g. for citizenship)?

Are you a deep person?

Given the chance to live your life on Mars, with no hope of returning to Earth but with the promise of scientific discovery and glory, would you take it?

Are you who people think you are?

Do you think you would be happier if you had been born a different gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, nationality or religion?

What’s your toxic trait? Are you trying to improve yourself and fix it?

Do you anger easily?

Are you a jealous person?

If you lost all your memories, would you have the same personality?

Given the chance to reset your life (with none of the knowledge you currently have), would you take it?

Is hate as strong as love? Who do you hate?

Do you speak multiple languages? Which do you dream in? What language would you want to learn?

Do you draw meaning from your dreams, or do you disregard them?

How would you describe yourself when you love? Do you love forcefully, unconditionally, gently, quietly, desperately?

Is unrequited love real love?

Is your perception of yourself similar or the same to how others perceive you?

Are you overly analytical?

Do you ever feel that you are really a terrible person, and only act good out of societal or some other obligation?

Do you believe in magic? Are you superstitious?

What belief do you have that isn’t logically grounded, but you still firmly believe in?

so this is a thing

a bunch of moms are making letters+audio recordings of affirming, validating letters to queer/trans* people who don’t get that kind of support from their moms

i would say more about it but

im kind of busy in this puddle of tears on the floor so

I'm in a groupchat with a bunch of queer people and someone made a joke about how dating someone who is in the closet is a terrible idea and everyone kind of laughed and agreed without discussing it more. Is that really a thing? I've been dating the same girl for almost a year and she's in the closet, and it hasn't really affected our relationship, but now I'm nervous

no it’s not a thing, and it’s a shitty joke to make, but people make it a lot. they usually mean it in the usual, “haha closeted people are ashamed of being lgbt/closeted people hate themselves/they’re scared to be seen in public on a date/you have to pretend to be just friends” way, which is infuriating. closeted gay/trans people aren’t necessarily self loathing or ashamed, and even if they are, those traits aren’t exclusive to closeted people, and considering that most of us have been closeted at some point or another, we should be able to fucking empathize with people who have to do that all the time.

we all know why closeted people are closeted. it’s because homophobia/transphobia is alive and real and has dire fucking consequences for a lot of us. no one, esp other lgbt people who know both the consequences of being out and the consequences of being closeted, should ostracize or belittle those who aren’t ready or able to come out.