if anti-smoking ads were less about shaming ppl for smoking & being like EW ur yucky đł & were more about resources for managing stress especially in marginalized communities where smoking is more likely to be picked up & resources for managing withdrawal symptoms & how to distract from mental cravings i wonder how many more people would quit
âJust because you donât see it, donât mean it donât existâ
in honor of pride month, i made a special lockscreen set for some of the main lgbt pride flags ^^
like or reblog if you use these!
To the person reading this, I hope tonight treats you gently, and that tomorrow looks brighter.Â
so this is a thing
a bunch of moms are making letters+audio recordings of affirming, validating letters to queer/trans* people who donât get that kind of support from their moms
i would say more about it but
im kind of busy in this puddle of tears on the floor so
I'm in a groupchat with a bunch of queer people and someone made a joke about how dating someone who is in the closet is a terrible idea and everyone kind of laughed and agreed without discussing it more. Is that really a thing? I've been dating the same girl for almost a year and she's in the closet, and it hasn't really affected our relationship, but now I'm nervous
no itâs not a thing, and itâs a shitty joke to make, but people make it a lot. they usually mean it in the usual, âhaha closeted people are ashamed of being lgbt/closeted people hate themselves/theyâre scared to be seen in public on a date/you have to pretend to be just friendsâ way, which is infuriating. closeted gay/trans people arenât necessarily self loathing or ashamed, and even if they are, those traits arenât exclusive to closeted people, and considering that most of us have been closeted at some point or another, we should be able to fucking empathize with people who have to do that all the time.
we all know why closeted people are closeted. itâs because homophobia/transphobia is alive and real and has dire fucking consequences for a lot of us. no one, esp other lgbt people who know both the consequences of being out and the consequences of being closeted, should ostracize or belittle those who arenât ready or able to come out.Â
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i have poor audio processing please let me visualize the words coming out of your mouth
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hey not to be a killjoy but can yâall spread the carrd about whatâs going on in Poland
obvious warning for homophobia, transphobia, etc. in the link above.
I was born there. I have countless of LGBT friends there, and the fact that this is happening in the year 2020 is inhumane and terrifying.Â
If youâre Polish, vote in the upcoming election. If youâre not polish, please spread the carrd around.
I am not an ideology. Nie jestem ideologiÄ .Â
Madison-Lesbian-21-she/her TERFs,MAPS,homophobes,transphobes,Nazis,and bigots fuck off - all other people are welcome here đđđŹđđ«
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