Touya Or Dabi?

YAY I GOT TAGGED (*≧∀≦)人(≧∀≦*)♪

guacamole - I don't have it often but when I do it's pretty good (^3^)/ idk it's not a food that I really go out of my way to eat lollll

olives - I don't think I'll ever be able to describe how much I dislike olives. I'll never say hate ( I don't like saying hate in general, it sounds so spiteful 😭 I digress), HOWEVER, when it comes to olives, I come awfully close to using the word lmao,

i think it's both the texture and the smell, I can't get over either to try and actually taste it. I don't think I've ever swallowed an olive tbh, everytime they show up in my salad I put them on my brother's plate, he inhales everything

mangoes - love loveee LOVEEEEE, my favourite fruit ever, so juicy, so yummy, I've never eaten a bad mango, nothing tops a ripe, fresh, cold and juicy mango on a hot summer day ♪ヽ(´▽｀)/ give me mango sweets, mango juice, mango smoothie, mango mango mango I love it !!!! (*≧∀≦)人(≧∀≦*)♪

hummus - hummus is saurrrrrrr good with carrots or slightly toasted pitta bread (o´Д`o) I don't think it's very good with cucumbers, bell peppers, or anything with a higher -than- average water content lololll

I went to Morocco 2 years ago, and I'm still thinking about the hummus I tried. bruh I dunno what they put in that hummus but it was way too good. It was slightly spicy, so creamy, and so flavourful ( ´∀`)/~~

tomatoes - I'm very particular with them lollll. I really don't like the texture of the seeds, it throws me off a lot. I also can't stand it when the actual flesh of the tomato is mushy, if that makes sense..? But I can tolerate salad tomatoes if they're cut in slices, wedges ?big no 🙅‍♀️

I seriously despise cherry tomatoes too (＃｀皿´) I think it's on par with olives lmao, it's the way they explode when you bite them and the weird gooey seeds escape into my mouth it's just eughhhhhhhhhh (　｀Å´)

cannolis - HELP I typed cannolis and my auto correct changed it to cannabis 😭😭. I've tried neither lmao, but I am open to trying new food !! (no drugs, I promise 🙋‍♀️)

But anyways those were my opinions ( ´∀`)/~~ thanks for tagging me kats, i love these games loll

My tags: @hokusu from a foodie to a foodie lol, @atlaas0 , please don't feel any pressure to do these !!

FOOD DISCOURSE: reblog with ur opinions on guacamole, olives, mango, hummus, tomatoes, and cannolis

No srsly tho there's a difference between just SHARING your opinion and FORCING your opinion on others !!

It's okay to have headcanons of characters and to view dynamics differently (which is one of the reasons rarepairs exist). And it's also okay to have discussions about said ships and rarepairs it's called having an open mind and realising that others just don't see or favour characters the same as you !!

HOWEVER when you start telling ppl to 'kys' over an honestly harmless opinion that's when the problems start. The whole thing where you insult or belittle ppl who have different interpretations over relationships is pretty childish imo. THE RELATIONSHIPS DONT EVEN CHANGE THE PLOT WHAT ARE U EVEN MAD ABT ⁉️ Some of the fandom are acting like we cant have opinions and imagination😭

The worst part is that this doesn't just apply to the demon slayer fandom it just happens to be one of the best exhibits for this behaviour 💀

Can we talk abt how dumb ppl in the kny fandoms are acting rn? Likw why r u so pissed about the rareships when there’s proshippers everywhere? Like girl we should be talking bout them!

These toxic shippers (sry to say mainly shinogiyuu and sanegiyuu) are fr the reason why the fandom is so divided. Can we just chill out and let ppl have their own harmless opinions?? 💀

EVERYONE LOOK

pov your friend’s parents were murdered at the hands of the league and you have no clue what (or who) is next. you don’t mean to sound cruel. you’re just scared.

but what kind of a hero blames their friend for his own parents’ deaths? what right do you have find fear in his grief? his parents are dead. he may as well be, too.

I'm so convinced that some viewers just wanna look sooo smart and big brained by constantly hyping up anime/manga with more complex plots + morally grey characters whilst shaming 'simple' and 'boring' anime like demon slayer.

Like what's so wrong with simplicity 😭? And it's not even like ds characters are one dimensional like they claim, in fact, ITS THEM because ds characters are complex it's just that they refuse to look into it beyond surface level (because trusttttt to each character there is so much more than outwardly shown)

I swear the Internet is like monkey see monkey do sometimes because the amount of blind leading the blind is crazy.

Wdym most of the ppl I've encountered in an online debate over ds haven't even WATCHED it? Like where did the opinion come from then ? Ur ass ?? Or the next guy in a random comment section shitting on the show for hoping for some sort of validation ??? Please 😭😭 learn to develop ur own opinions, I get using other opinions to form ur own but don't use unreliable sources i.e., dumbasses that just reiterate other dumbasses

love ur blogs btw ur sanegiyu takes always keep me going 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Uhm...hello...oh my god, okay, this is my first time doing this so I probably should apologize in advance for I just know this is going to be a big yap session (there'll definitely be a question, trust).

I'm rather new to the KnY fandom so I haven't really completed the manga yet (as in, analyzed it) although I've gotten all the Spoilers I could get. I've read the light novels to an extent, too)

Sanemi really became my favourite character although it was a connection I couldn't really explain or express since he unfortunately remains one of the most hated characters in DS, and yes I began shipping Giyuu x Sanemi even though many people seem to think that's weird and came out of the blue.

A Pinterest pin with a link to your page; a post where you had a theory that Sanemi had some form of anxiety...and boy am I grateful to the person who made that post, I've been hooked to your blog ever since.

So, uhm, first of all let me just say that I love all your writings. They're convincing, elaborate, and the amount of research you've put into them is mind blowing! The Obanai analysis, the fandom discourse, to name a few, are some of my favourites. I've only read a few, so you might've already made a post answering a question similar to this, but uh...lemme ignore that. Okay, that's enough...onto the questions.

I wanted to ask you about Giyuu and Sanemi's relationship. One thing critics love to say is that their relationship would be "toxic." (That Giyuu's uncommunicative ways will be irritating and unbearable for Sanemi and since he's shown to be rather impatient, he'd lash out and Giyuu will only become even more quiet.) I genuinely want to know what you'd have to say about this. I can already tell you're an unapologetic GiyuuSane shipper, so I wanna know, as I don't know much about their relationship myself, but found that I adored the ship so much it became too much to bear.

Another thing is about Demon Slayer itself. I'm almost very sure that you are aware of how many people criticize the show. I've fallen in love with KnY and I genuinely want to understand why it's hated so much. So far I've been hearing that KnY is badly, poorly written; it has one-dimensional/ one-sided characters, sucks at world-building, is inconsistent, overrated, mid, cliché, unoriginal and what not. I've seen somebody make a freaking hour-long YouTube video on why DS is that bad. (I'm unsure if you've seen it, though.) Some people say there's way too much plot armour and the villains got nerfed, that Douma vs Shinobu fight was just the author rushing things; apparently the ending was rushed too. Its pacing was "horrible" the backstory dumping and the endless monologue is annoying to them, and "the only personality the characters ever have is their backstory." Someone even commented "the characters are basically caricatures with catchphrases."

I've heard that Obanai's character is boring, inconsistent and lacked development (that his character can literally be summed to "I hate all women except Mitsuri"), that Zenitsu is annoying, terribly written and is wasted potential, that Kanao is a typical Y/N character and that the Kamado siblings are nothing special, and are extremely generic and boring (especially Nezuko, she seemingly has zero personality.) Idk much, but there are some posts on Pinterest saying that all the canon ships except the Uzuis have poor writing. Even Giyuu seems to be a "Wattpad mafia lord who acts like he's carrying too much pain." Basically they're saying the characters are one-sided, lacking in development, mid, the villains are auraless, the anime is cliché and has nothing unique to it, and the only thing that carries KnY is Ufotable's animation.

Now the reason I'm writing to you is because I really, really want to know what your opinion on this is. I mostly think perspectives differ based on how people define "good" or "bad" writing, everyone has varied views; however as much as I want to defend an anime I've surprisingly grown embarrassingly attached too, I think you're better qualified. It hurts when people attack something that's close to your heart, even if it is just a bunch of pixels. I'm probably stupid to get affected by mere criticisms of a damn ANIME this much, but unfortunately this doesn't seem like something I can control. I am a deranged, cowardly escapist so I didn't even watch the criticisms properly but got the gist of it.

Uhm...yeah, I'm very sorry if I sound demanding, you can take your time, it doesn't matter how long it takes to reply (it's okay if you don't even want to reply, needed to get this off my chest to someone somehow), please don't stress yourself out, I've seen all the amazing titles you're preparing for, wish you luck.

(Okay I'll stop now. Sorry.)

Hey Anon,

I hope you're doing well.

Not gonna lie your ask made me tear up a bit especially towards the end of it because I get you, I get you so, so fucking much. Being a Demon Slayer fan, specifically an English-speaking Demon Slayer fan, is tough. It's like everywhere you look, all you see is negativity towards the series. At some point, you start to feel like you're the only one, you start to doubt yourself and feel, just as you described, crazy and deranged for getting so emotionally attached to such a'mid' anime series.

But lemme tell you this. Fuck those guys. Never be embarrassed for getting emotionally attached to a piece of media, that's what makes you human, it means that you have the time to critically assess and think about what you watch instead of just consuming it mindlessly. Creators LOVE people like you, and I'm absolutely sure that Gotogue-sensei would be touched that her work means so much to you. It's better to be attached or be a stan of something than to be a mindless bot wading through life with no passion for anything.

And I'm not just saying this because I'm also a deranged fan. This applies to any piece of media or any anime series. You know your heart, you know what you've been through in life, you know how life especially in this century is so fucking hard where it seems like everything is trying to crush you, where it feels like you're constantly trying to keep your head afloat in a vast ocean of despair being weighed down by, well, everything and if you find that one life raft that keeps you above the surface, that one thing that allows you to keep on going, that one ray of sunshine that makes you think hey maybe the world isn't so bad, as long as you’re in your lane, just enjoying KnY and engaging with the fandom in a positive way then who the FUCK are those barely sentient pieces of shit to take it away from you?

So with that being said, let's explore your concerns

SaneGiyuu is toxic

I feel the reason people think it’s a toxic ship is because a huge chunk of the fandom tends to infantilize Giyuu and vilify Sanemi. Which is a side effect of the lack of media literacy and shallowness that a lot of people possess.

Giyuu is always made out to be this soft, quiet, uwu-baby boy who is in need of protection because he's constantly bullied by the big, scary meanies like Sanemi and Obanai. Which people with working brains will know is far from the truth; Sanemi and Obanai talk shit about him yes, but if talking shit about someone constitutes as bullying then we’re all bullies and I bully my former boss.

Sanemi on the other hand is always made out to be either this irredeemable monster or this dominant, feral, 'hide-your-daughters' type man who's always alpha and on top, grrrrrr, he's both demonized and sexualized by a lot of fans. So with this mischaracterization of both characters, it's no wonder that people will see SaneGiyuu and come to the conclusion that it’s toxic because all they see is this soft, baby-uwu angel being paired up with this rabid monster. They want Sanemi and Giyuu to be Izuku and Bakugou from MHA so badly, which is just dumb. The other detractors of this ship usually lack the ability to recognize subtext or are just plain homophobic, thinking that the ship interferes with their fantasies.

Here’s a list of some posts I’ve made refuting these claims, but also exploring their dynamics. Just like you, this ship is really important to me because of it’s underlying themes of found family, trauma, miscommunication, isolation. And just the comfort of finding someone who has been through the same things you’ve been through and understands your pain.

The Anime is mid

Since you're new to the fandom it’s no surprise that the 'Demon Slayer is mid' comments would get to you, they used to get to me too. Long time fans will tell you how they’ve learned to just tune out the nonsense and focus on the fandom. Like yea yea we heard you, demon slayer is only carried by the animation, when you’re tired of complaining you’ll shut up and go back to snorting the Cheetos dust off your keyboard 🙄. 

I consider Demon Slayer a litmus test on how people analyze media, especially media that doesn’t have elements that they’re familiar with. See, here’s one thing that a lot of people, even fans of Demon Slayer, don’t get. Demon Slayer is a character driven story—every event or fight is done for the development of the characters in the story. That's why the plot is so simple because it’s not about the plot, it’s about the characters. When people criticize KnY’s plot for being simple, I can’t help but laugh because almost all the greatest stories in humanity have simple plots or some none at all.

Lord of the Rings is about a bunch of dudes who travel to a tower to destroy a ring. 

Gladiator is about a fallen general who is out for revenge on the emperor who betrayed him. 

The Matrix doesn't even have a proper goal until the third act of the movie. 

Harry Potter is about a bunch of kids who want to defeat the wizard that killed Harry's parents. 

American Psycho doesn't even have a proper story structure. It's just about a psychotic dude who goes axe-crazy, literally. 

The Star Wars franchise is about a bunch of people rebelling against a dictatorship. 

Sam Raimi's Spider-Man is about Peter facing the Villain of the week.

So why are these stories so close to our hearts? It’s because of the characters. All this talk about characters being nerfed, fights being boring, plot armor, pacing etc. etc. are all plot-related complaints which don’t apply to the story because it’s all about the characters. Those who say the characters are one-dimensional are just fucking stupid, lazy and shallow-minded. The rest don’t even properly watch the anime or read the manga, they just parrot whatever opinions are popular at the moment.

It also doesn't cater to the western gaze. KnY is completely and unapologetically Japanese, it can’t take place in anywhere but Japan. it’s so rich with Japanese culture, mythologies, folktales, and stories that it’s either you get it, try to get it or you don’t. Even the name 'Kimetsu no Yaiba' directly translates to Blade of Demon Destruction and not just any blade either, Yaiba specifically refers to a Japanese sword. It’s a love letter to Japan that celebrates Japanese culture and values so much that it borders on nationalism 😂. This is foreign to some anime dudebros who are used to anime that either takes place in modern Tokyo, Western-inspired fantasy countries, some version of 'San Fransokyo' or the Edo period.

This especially goes for that arrogant streak of shit who has dryer lint for hair that made the 1hr-long video. I’m sorry, but I’ll be damned before I entertain the opinions of someone who thinks Walter White is a great, complex character. Like bitch, you're not some deep, philosophical critic, you’re just a stupid edgelord who just happened to snare the interest of other stupid edgelords who want to feel like their existence and opinions matter in the grand scheme of things.

Here's a video where the creator refutes that asshole's bullshit criticisms. And here are some other positive and more nuanced analysis videos by people who have actual brains and, y'know, HAVE ACTUALLY WATCHED THE FUCKING ANIME AND READ THE FUCKING MANGA! Here, here, here and here. I'll post them in my pinned post and update when I find more stuff.

So please don't feel sad Anon! Nothing any of these cum-stain-should’ve-beens spew out of the cesspool inside their skulls will change the fact that Demon Slayer is a cultural phenomenon that revitalized the manga and anime industry. It is so popular that even the prime minister of Japan is a fan, that it introduced millions of people to not just anime/manga culture but also Japanese culture, that it revitalized the anime industry. There's also the debate about how it apparently outsold the entire comic book industry in 2020 and university researchers have studied and published analysis pieces on the characters. Not bad for a 'mid' series 😤

I hope I was able to answer your questions, and make you feel better. I'm glad you love my work but most importantly:

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LMAO sameeee (*≧∀≦)人(≧∀≦*)♪

it's okay haha, one thing I love more than touyas body horror is everyone's reaction (mainly enji and rei's bc that's their son-) to the extent of it bc just imagine the heartbreak, the horror, the guilt, the ache ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡ I love it here lmao idm the derail in topic ♪ヽ(´▽｀)/

and yeah. the fact that all endeavor could find was his part of his jaw. dawg my HEART.

yk the scene where dabi reveals himself and endeavor is literally going thru it all over again. when I was watching it, all I could think of was the heartbreak, the confusion, the denial, it's all THERE. this man is going over every little detail of sekoto peak after his son's 'death'. every possible detail that could've indicated touya's survival, what did he miss ? could he really have saved his son ? could he have saved his family from the grief ? could he have saved more than a fragment of touya's jaw ?

maybe he could have. the same son that he was just starting to believe to be dead is now right in front of him. that outcome was possible in another universe. and doesn't that hurttttttttttttt enji, omy gosh none of them deserve this

it makes me wonder if enji was ever close to discovering touya's body. as in, he's a pro hero and that's his son, so enji wasted no time in running into the forest. but the fire was 2000°c !!! touya's flames are wayyyy hotter than enji's, and sure, enji has more resistance but it doesn't mean that he's immune to the effects of fire.

imagine, the smoke clinging to his lungs, causing him to heave. the ash making his eyes water and his vision blur. the unmistakable smell of burning flesh. none of this is easing his worry. there's no sign of touya anywhere. all that he can hear is the blaze of the inferno that's taking his son away from him. and isn't it deafening (;´-｀)

imagine that in all of his panic and distress, enji misses touyas corpse. wouldn't that be tragic. as much as I think AFO defo came in asap and swiped touya immediately, I can't help but feel like that this is a possibility that goes through enjis mind. it's written all over his face in that scene omy goshhhhhhhhugngh this is making me sick

can we talk abt touya's medical trauma more please

Happy 20th anniversary to Avatar

i can't believe a boy this cute didn't want friends at the beginning of the anime !!

Ashido Mina 💚💜

I’m too bird brained atm