Lesbians who can't have penetrative sex because of physical reasons are valid.
Lesbians who can't have penetrative sex because of psychological reasons are valid.
Lesbians who don't want to have penetrative sex are valid.
Lesbians who struggle to have penetrative sex are valid.
Lesbians who don't enjoy penetrative sex are valid.
Lesbians who are scared of penetrative sex are valid.
Lesbians who find penetrative sex uncomfortable are valid.
Heteronormative culture tells us that sex is defined by penetration. But it's not. There is no hierarchy of sex acts. You don't have to do anything you aren't ready for or don't want to ever do. You can still be fully sexually active if you can't or don't have penetrative sex. Your sex partners must respect that or they're garbage.
it was at this same time of night three years ago that the pulse massacre took place in orlando, so please take some time today to remember and mourn for the 49 primarily latine lgbt people who were murdered that night. And don’t let anyone brush aside the fact that one of the deadliest mass shootings in american history was against the gay community
here’s a link to an article remembering the lives of all 49 victims as well as a link where you can donate to the fund to turn the sight of the nightclub into a permanent memorial
As someone who hates wrapping presents, I found this really helpful
Not to be gay but my girlfriend is so amazing and makes me so happy
You ever invite your coworker to watch you give birth just to spite a racist
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your partner still loves you even when they are away.
your friends still loves you even when they are away.
they will sill love you even if they have other friends.
they weill still love you even if you are not okay.
they will still love you even if they don’t reply immediately.
they will still love you even if you don’t reply them immediately.
they will still love you even if they can’t talk in a exact moment.
they will still love you even they are not around you 24/7.
they will still love you even if you don’t love some things about yourself.
MAYBE
they fell asleep.
they are busy.
they don’t feel okay to talk right now.
they had to immediately leave for some reason.
they are studying.
they are working.
they are practicing a hobby.
they forgot to reply by distraction.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
MAYBE
they are going through a hard time.
they are hurt by something you said or did (don’t get paranoid because of it, try to talk to them).
they are very busy with work or studies.
they are planning something good for you.
THEY STILL LOVE YOU.
“i made a mistake and hurt them.” you can always apologize! everyone makes mistakes.
“they made a mistake and hurt me.” tell your feelings to them.
“they will leave me, i know it.” check if it’s not your paranoid thoughts acting out and tell your feelings to them, we can’t be 100% sure if someone will abandon us.
“they have someone better in their lives.” i personally don’t believe in “someone better”, because we all have good and bad aspects, but it doesn’t even matter if they have someone better, because they are with you because they like you and not because of someone else or whatever.
“i’m not enough.” YOU ARE ENOUGH FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
“i’m ugly.” YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FOR THEM. THEY LOVE YOU.
- Everything I said relates to healthy relationships only. I don’t support abusive relationships and please take care of yourself and look for help if you are being abused.
Madison-Lesbian-21-she/her TERFs,MAPS,homophobes,transphobes,Nazis,and bigots fuck off - all other people are welcome here 👭💜👬💜👫
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