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Play Now and Get Up to 80 Pulls!

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Totally agree Mistress and still seeking my commanding wife for both our happiness and contentment together - you are still in all my sensual loving thoughts x x x 

I always long to learn from you Mistress - you are so wise, intelligent and knowledgeable and I long to sit at your feet, kneel in attendance, and enjoy all that you wish to impart to me - for me to understand, and know what is important in your life, needs and desires x x x  

They are very grateful and need a prod every so often, until their consciousness is fully awakened and offer their full attention to their new knowledge and duties - I try to live in full consciousness but as John Lennon said - sometimes life overtakes you when you are planning to do something else - all prods gratefully received x

Perfect to enforce the total commitment and to improve performance without ejaculation - constant erections for her, and he knows that he is not allowed to cum without her permission - thinking of You x x x 

Locking Commitment Rings: The Chastity Alternative

I know there are many FLR couples that enjoy denying him orgasms. Many opt for a chastity device since it enhances her control and his submission, however, many couples may find that making him wear a cage, is a little extreme. Not to mention it can be a lot of maintenance, keeping up good hygiene, needing an emergency key everywhere in case it's not on properly.

Some just find chastity too much and prefer the honor system. That's totally okay too. However, there is an alternative to chastity that few people are aware are of, and it's just as effective as chastity is! Plus it has other benefits too!

Rather than cage his cock, how about making him wear a commitment ring? Basically a commitment ring is similar to a chastity cage, without the cage. It has a base ring, that goes around his scrotum which attaches to a smaller ring that goes around the base of his penis. It locks the same way a chastity cage does. But it does several different things.

First of all, it allows him to have erections. So he still has full access to his penis. But it comes with an extra bonus, the ring around the base of his penis, will actually make his erections stronger, and harder, but it also makes ejaculation more difficult as well! So it increases his stamina during intercourse, and can even make him last through her orgasm so he can remain denied. He can still cum with it on though, so use it carefully. It just makes ejaculation harder to achieve.

Since ejaculation is harder to achieve, it also means that he will never cum accidentally. The ring makes that near impossible. So if he does have an unauthorized release, it's because he made it happen. So she may act accordingly, and be completely justified (not that she needs to be justified).

There is another benefit to a locking commitment ring. It can be locked on 24/7/365. It's super easy to keep clean, since it's only two rings. It can be worn during sex too, so there's never a reason to remove it, except for medical reasons.

On top of that, it shows his dedication to her. Its like a wedding ring, it never comes off, and it reminds her every time she sees him, that he belongs to her, and her only. Because it would be quite difficult to explain to another woman what that locked metal ring is doing there. so it acts as a symbol of commitment and devotion to her.

It also keeps him very frustrated, since every time he thinks of her, he's going to get extra hard, and he's going to have to use all of his will power not to touch himself. She will notice a change in his behavior if he does cum, and he knows it, so there's really no point in disobeying and touching without permission.

A locking commitment ring is perfect for a FLR if you're not interest in chastity cages. So check one out if you want your sub to wear something dedicated to you. You can even put something like a dog tag on it, that says property of. Or use it to attach a leash. You get to be creative with it, and it never comes off him! It's perfect.

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Just love how his arms are trapped by the pressure of her ankles, so he can’t move or escape from all the pleasure giving, and receiving too. x

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So beautifully explained, and such a delicious way to be trained, to keep that essential high energy for the full benefit of my Queen and Owner x

When In Doubt ..... Ruin Him!

When a FLR is first starting out, it can take a bit of time to adjust to a sex life with a D/s dynamic. Both partners have their own unique struggles to go through, and so there's no need to rush anything. Whatever kinks you decide to partake in and make a part of your dynamic, I think it's safe to say the general theme in a FLR is tease and denial .... for him.

I think the benefits of a well teased and denied sub speak for themselves. When he is constantly in craving, and aching, he is simply more attentive, and more obedient. It's like magic, almost. However, many Domme's often feel guilty when they don't give in and let him cum. His begging, and whimpering often is just too cute to not let him have it. So rather than feel guilty, let him have it... but with a condition.

Ruin his orgasm. This can actually be a huge factor within the D/s dynamic, because ultimately she controls all his releases, and how he has them. Giving her the ultimate choice, each and every time. Especially if he's locked in chastity, and restrained when unlocked, so he never gets access to his own cock. All he knows is her touch, and only her touch. He's completely at her mercy.

So when it's time for him to have a release, but she doesn't really want him to have a full orgasm, because she knows it drains all his passion from him. All that submission and obedience becomes dulled for a day or two until it builds back up... This is not ideal to happen regularly in a FLR. So a ruined orgasm, grants both, his release, and keeps his frustration levels high. He gets drained, but remains perfectly obedient. Win win!

To ruin his orgasm, can be a bit of an art at first. She must learn the tell of his body as she stimulates him, and monitor his breathing. Recognizing when his breath quickens and his body starts to convulse, she can expertly time it. If she times it correctly, his cum will only, very slowly, dribble out of his penis. There should not be any spurts! If there's even a single spurt, it mean's he's getting pleasure from it. The idea of a ruined orgasm, is to give him a release, but not pleasure. She can then lose any guilt, because she knows he had a release.

As long as he doesn't spurt, he will remain fully frustrated, as if he didn't cum at all. Which is hugely beneficial for her. So whenever she is in doubt, a ruined orgasm is the way to go.

Bonus: The perfect way to train him to clean up his cum, is after ruined orgasms. He will still be submissive enough to lick it up without any hesitations.

Want to support me as a writer, and learn more about FLR?

Check out my Practical FLR book series here

Just so beautiful, and love that dark delicious skin x

So beautifully put across, and it is a very happy memory for me to have enjoyed that exquisite session and it was and still is very addictive - so thank You, and you are sorely missed - Ed x

When In Doubt ..... Ruin Him!

When a FLR is first starting out, it can take a bit of time to adjust to a sex life with a D/s dynamic. Both partners have their own unique struggles to go through, and so there's no need to rush anything. Whatever kinks you decide to partake in and make a part of your dynamic, I think it's safe to say the general theme in a FLR is tease and denial .... for him.

I think the benefits of a well teased and denied sub speak for themselves. When he is constantly in craving, and aching, he is simply more attentive, and more obedient. It's like magic, almost. However, many Domme's often feel guilty when they don't give in and let him cum. His begging, and whimpering often is just too cute to not let him have it. So rather than feel guilty, let him have it... but with a condition.

Ruin his orgasm. This can actually be a huge factor within the D/s dynamic, because ultimately she controls all his releases, and how he has them. Giving her the ultimate choice, each and every time. Especially if he's locked in chastity, and restrained when unlocked, so he never gets access to his own cock. All he knows is her touch, and only her touch. He's completely at her mercy.

So when it's time for him to have a release, but she doesn't really want him to have a full orgasm, because she knows it drains all his passion from him. All that submission and obedience becomes dulled for a day or two until it builds back up... This is not ideal to happen regularly in a FLR. So a ruined orgasm, grants both, his release, and keeps his frustration levels high. He gets drained, but remains perfectly obedient. Win win!

To ruin his orgasm, can be a bit of an art at first. She must learn the tell of his body as she stimulates him, and monitor his breathing. Recognizing when his breath quickens and his body starts to convulse, she can expertly time it. If she times it correctly, his cum will only, very slowly, dribble out of his penis. There should not be any spurts! If there's even a single spurt, it mean's he's getting pleasure from it. The idea of a ruined orgasm, is to give him a release, but not pleasure. She can then lose any guilt, because she knows he had a release.

As long as he doesn't spurt, he will remain fully frustrated, as if he didn't cum at all. Which is hugely beneficial for her. So whenever she is in doubt, a ruined orgasm is the way to go.

Bonus: The perfect way to train him to clean up his cum, is after ruined orgasms. He will still be submissive enough to lick it up without any hesitations.

Want to support me as a writer, and learn more about FLR?

Check out my Practical FLR book series here

Ohh yes, that's my favorite thing to do 😍👅👅

Doing yoga

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This is one of the best things about my life. @mrs--edge loves the way my being locked makes her feel about herself. As a result, we are much more intimate, and have more sex - really, amazingly good sex - than ever. She has totally made this her own, and I wouldn't change a thing about what we do.

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