Assumptions - Blog Posts

in recognition of World Down Syndrome Day on March 21

Does anyone remember the name of that fic where the rogues think Tony is cheating on pepper with may because he keeps disappearing to meet with peter and they overhear a phone conversation where he says I love you?

Edit: I found the fic thanks you guys

Please stop making assumptions when writing fanfictions

----------------------------------------------------------

Hi. Yes, Hello. Nice to meet you, the name's Nixon. Normally this wouldn't be something I'd do, but damn does this one thing irritate me. Now, I'm not stupid. I am very aware of the concept of minorities and majorities. But even so, it still mildly irritates me when I have to actively ignore certain parts of a fanfiction when they:

Assume my height

Assume the length of my hair

Assume my breast size

Assume my skin color

Assume my weight

Basically, assume anything about me.

When writing fanfiction, you're not writing about yourself(unless you are, then it's a self insert fanfiction and should be stated as such). It just baffles me how many times I've had to actively tune out the parts of fanfictions where they say "he/her/they bent down to kiss you" or "you leaned up to kiss him/her/them". Like, maybe I'm 6 feet tall.

And it especially confuses me when they do this with characters like Shoyo Hinata and Yuu Nishinoya, who are very short (Shoyo being about 5'3, and Nishinoya being about 5'2). Who knows, maybe I like shorter guys. Maybe I want to be taller than them

About the minority and majority. I understand that in the majority of relationships the boy is taller than the girl. I understand that most times, the girl wants to be protected by the boy. I am aware that alot of the times, girls might have longer hair. But that's what makes fanfiction so great in my opinion. Societal norms have no effect! You can write about anything! So it frustrates me when nothing I'd like to read is available.

I LOVE Deku, but in basically every fanfiction I see of him, he's "becoming a man" or "showing a more dominant side" or "fucking you senseless because you called him cute and he wants to put you in your place" and my dominant ass is over here like: 😰😰🧍🏾‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

I just wish there was more of something me and my dom friends could enjoy.

I just wish fanfiction was more neutral, and less assumptions were made about who the reader is, what they like to do, what they look like, you know?

Sorry for the rant. I just felt like releasing some thoughts I'd had on my brain for a little bit. That's all I wanted to say. Thanks for listening :)

- Nixon

HIHIHI!! First off,I am so so so sorry for being so inactive! A lot has happened in my life (moving, mental health- not to mention im chronically ill 😭)

Anywho! I am bacckkkkk! So to start off again I am going to be giving myself a challenge and manifesting by just saying one word. (I picked turtle😭🐢)

Here are all of the things I am GOING to manifest! 🔮✨

Db (toned while being slim, bigger boobs, cleared acne, noticeable abs but not TOO noticeable, blue grey eyes, DEPUFF FACE basically make face slimmer, me but like 1000000x prettier)

Get official diagnosis for POTS

Super fucking smart and learn things easily I’m literally top of my class

Get accepted into my dream highschool for acting (after years of homeschool😣✊)

MONEY MONEY MONEY LITERALLY SO MUCH MONEY

Custom hot pink wheelchair!! And it all being covered by insurance!

Healthy relationship with sister and all family members

Wheelchair accessible wherever I go!

Good relationship with food, eating meals daily

MY MF OCD GETTING BETTER

Amazing gut and digestive health!

Finally start to heal from my chronic illness

Make lots of AMAZING friends at my new school!

Family starts making a lot more money than before!!

Amazing singing and acting skills

Once again, MONEY

Being able to go to school everyday and learn without getting burnt out!

I’ll be doing this all by saying one word (turtle) I literally just chose a random word and I decided that saying it will get me my desires 💖

BYE 🧚‍♀️

😳

🧩🎲🥁🎨♟️

————

Iykyk

roman f* empire

--------

————

All methods are effective in their own way, but the question is how long it will take.

If you have the willpower and determination to keep going no matter what happens, I recommend this: keep repeating the affirmations and assumptions over and over again. In my experience, if you continue this for at least a week, you will see noticeable effects in your daily life, and if you continue it for more than two weeks, you will see emotional and physical effects that are difficult to endure. I have tried various methods such as assumptions and affirmations, subliminal messages, meditation, astral projecting, and lucid dreaming for a long time, but it did not work well.

All the practices had some effect. The only problem was that the most important shifting did not occur. I eventually thought that if I kept practicing, I would see good results. However, I was concerned about how much time it would take. Many professional meditators intentionally avoid asking the question of how long it takes for believers to practice. I recently got the answer to that question from a meditator. He said that it takes at least 10 years of practice to get really noticeable and specific results. So yes, that is true. All methods, including meditation, are effective. However, it can take an unimaginably long time to achieve satisfactory results.

I had to find the fastest, most powerful, and most effective method. Then I remembered a practice that I had stopped a long time ago. It was really intense and powerful. For more information, please refer to the following link.

I think that if you have the determination and resolve and really focus most of the time during the day, you will experience dramatic and intense results in a short period of time. I couldn't stand it and eventually had to stop and find another, safer way. However, safe means proven and proven by existing practitioners. We already know that many traditional practitioners have already done almost the same or similar practices and they work, but the problem is that you have to invest almost your entire life to get really amazing results.

It's all up to you. Good luck…

I had been working on the assumption that eventually everyone figures it out & goes on living the life they've created which is mostly true but as soon as you figure it out, something else changes so you figure that out too, & you keep going so it really doesn't stop & there isn't just 1 "it" to figure out which is ok & a little intimidating but i know we will be fine as long as we keep on creating & help each other along the way

by AdamJK