Bellusromantic - Blog Posts

why are all the examples for bellusromantic kissing I'm not interested in the kissing I'm interested in snuggles and handholding and friendship dates

My LGBTQ Identities

No one probably cares, but i just want to say this somewhere lol.

I am genderfree, genderblank, schrodigender, and blankboy. I am also aroace, bellusromantic, gay, androromantic, and ambiamorous.

I use they/it/he; in order of preference.

My chosen names are Malachyt, Rayn, and Cerberus.

Have a nice day/night/afternoon/morning! :)

seeing as it is currently aro awareness week and i am aro i decided to draw vflower with my piss ass microlabel, bellusromantic !!!

bellusromantic is a label that means enjoying typically romantic things but not feeling romantic attraction, "we can kiss but dont catch feelings", like enjoying things like kissing and whatnot in a non-romantic context

for me this is kind of like, enjoying typically-romantic things kind of in the same way one might enjoy rping or playing pretend ?? like i enjoy doing the stuff without actually partaking in the thing theyre acosiated with ? like i enjoy kissing and stuff, tis fun, but i do not feel romantic attraction to people,, those are very seperate tjhjings in my mind, unrelated to one another i hope that makes even a lick of sense ??? like the physical act of smthing like kissing has no romantic connotation to me personally, so i can totally still enjoy that without feeling romantic attraction to other people, but i know its generally associated with romance, so its kind of like playing pretend,, like how someone might enjoy cleaning in video games but has no want to clean their house irl agsdhadkjasdkas im really bad at explaining waht i mean,, this is something ive felt and known for so long now thats its evolved beyond words, i cant compress years of feelings and thoughts into words that will make sense to other people,, so i hope if nothing else this was maybe interesting to read,