Self Respect - Blog Posts

This. If I can get this into my head, that would be great

self-improvement should be because you want to improve your quality of life, not because you feel or think you *need* to be better in order to be loved or allowed to live. there's no end goal with self-improvement, it's easy to dig yourself a grave when you don't realize that you're not on a ticking clock to be the 'best version of yourself'. all you need to strive to do is be the version of yourself you are the most happy with. find out what values you find important, what kind of friend do you want to be, how do you want to react to things. what are things that would improve the way you go about life? what would make life easier, better and more enjoyable for you?

Daily reminder… brought to you by one of my coffee cups. 🧡

Value yourself. The only people who appreciate a doormat are people with dirty shoes.

Leo Buscaglia

No me alejo de las personas para enseñarles una lección, me alejo porque Yo entendí mi lección...

More shower thoughts for y'all!

Imagine this:

There's 2 girls. One is very famous and the other looks really cool but isn't very well known.

The famous girl goes around copying people's looks because she likes their style. But because she's famous, she tells the person who's look she's going to copy that they have to stop dressing like that until she finds a new person to copy.

The cool girl is walking around one day and the famous girl sees her. She decides that the cool girl is going to be her new style. So little miss famous goes up to the cool girl and says “I like your style.” The cool girl assuming she's simply complimenting how she looks says “thank you”. Famous says “I'm making your style my own. So you'll need to find a new one until I find one that's more interesting.” Cool girl says “no. You can dress like me if you want but I'm gonna keep my style how it is.”

Famous gets mad and tries to force cool girl to give up her style so she can have it for herself. “It's MY style now! You have to find a different one so that it's just mine!” Famous whines.

Cool girl rolls her eyes and says ”Hear me and hear me well! You can like my style and copy it all you want, I don't mind. In fact I'm flattered you like how I look enough to want to look the same. But I'm not going to stop being me just because you want to be the only me!”

Let these thoughts I share with you give you the confidence to be yourself. And never let someone tell you to stop being yourself just because they want to be the only one like you.

I honor, respect, and value myself deeply. This has been a huge shift for me because when I was younger, I didn’t. As a result, the environment I created and the quality of people I allowed in my life were not the best.

Now, I’m very intentional about who has access to me. I evaluate where they are in their own journey and if they can at least show the minimum respect for who I am today.

The peace and authenticity I experience and express are sacred. Maintaining this is a top priority for me every day. I carefully choose who enters my space, and I observe how their energy aligns with my well-being. If someone, whether family or friend, does not demonstrate understanding or respect for who I am, their access to me becomes very limited or non-existent.

I make sure to check in with myself before committing to plans, and even if I’ve said yes, I’ll change my mind if it no longer feels right. I do this respectfully.

I observe the character of others—their energy, intentions—and determine if it aligns with my highest good. This applies to both people and environments. I take my energetic capacity seriously.

I know I’m fully responsible for the energy I allow in my presence. The energy I surround myself with is a reflection of where I am within. My space, energy, words, and care are valuable, and I live with strong intentions and healthy boundaries. I live by “Don’t cast your pearls before swine.” Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind. It’s that simple.

Definitely 🥹

I can't express myself like I want because of fear. I want to loose this fear and I will.

I like to help. But sometimes I also want help.

I'm good at giving.

I listen, I'm there, I support, I carry.

It makes me happy when I can do someone good.

But deep inside me there is also a desire:

For someone to be there for me.

Not because I have fallen.

Not because I'm strong.

But simply because sometimes I don't know what to do.

I want to learn to accept help - without

without feeling bad about it.

Without having to give back straight away.

Without thinking about whether I'm asking too much.

I want to trust.

That I don't have to do anything to be kept.

A Turkish saying

- a fault confessed is half redressed

I choose not to respond to these messages.

Not responding is not disrespectful, an expression of my self-respect.

The guilt is not mine.

The burden I carry no longer belongs to me.

I want to heal, not fight.

And that's why I hear myself most where I am silent

**The fire within me**

I am afraid -

not of the darkness,

not of the storm

that breaks through the night.

But of it,

of strange hands coming,

quietly, uninvited,

and try

to extinguish the glow in my eyes -

this wild flickering,

that lets me breathe.

Let me burn,

even if it blinds you.

Let me blaze,

even if it frightens you.

Because I am not a spark,

that can be extinguished -

just a star,

that awakens in its own light.

Also my greatest fear

One of my greatest fears is I will die without finding a single soul who knows what to do with all this fire behind my eyes.

Cindy Cherie

"I choose not to respond to these messages.

Because it's a way for me to keep my soul.

Not responding is not disrespectful,

an expression of my self-respect.

The guilt is not mine.

The burden I carry no longer belongs to me.

I want to heal, not fight.

And that's why I hear myself most where I am silent."

They wanted me to become a man who fights for his respect. But I became a man who respects himself. And that’s how I became awkward— and I loved

that

kind of awkwardness.

I love answering questions/asks PLEASE SEND ME MOREEE😭

On the episode where Tori (Victorious) had a broken phone and she kept saying that if she did get another GX then the XT would come out the next day and she’ll be stuck with the GX. She persisted and saturated her mind so much with that assumption her friends knew the sentence. When she did buy a new GX the XT came out the next day. NOBODY AND I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOBODY CAN TELL ME THAT MANIFESTATION ISNT REAL WE LITERALLY DO IT EVERYDAY intentionally and unintentionally

FINALLY COMING TO REALIZATION

( if you don’t want to read the whole thing which I don’t blame you lol scroll down to the last bit <3 )

I have officially decided that i have everything i want and don’t care if the 3d shows me different because i know it’s not real. i am done entertaining the old story. I have stopped caring about irrelevant things . I’m living as the person who has already has it. if i got it in imagination then im good. i have became the person i always wanted to be.

that was a little vaunt/rant i wanted to say before i get into what i really want to talk about. I have came to the realization that i have been wasting time and energy into methods. (If you like/love doing methods and it works for you then keep continuing to do so <3) I tried meditating , the lullaby method,yoga nidra and so much more. when i found another method i gave up on the method doing before and went to the next. I even went back to the previous methods that did not work for me the first time desperately hoping that they would work. I was seeing angel numbers everyday multiple times (still do) so that was giving me hope. There were times i would get frustrated with the void/the law and just cry. Now im going to tell you what i personally think held me back ( btw i no longer identify with these things anymore!) i always used to procrastinate a lot and i would give myself these lectures and still did the same thing i told myself I was not going to do. I started getting more into states i found it interesting kinda. I even made an alter ego ( Miss Arianna Avalyń) that did help me with confidence I still use avalyń time from time. all Im really trying to say is the power is not in the method but its within YOU. I thought I had to affirm for hours or certain amount of time for the affirmations to really work but now I consider affirming once saturating my mind because it repeats a zillion times. I made my own rules. I’ve gotten into the state of knowing I already have what I want and don’t have to do anything else. most important part⇩

To make this simpler : YOU have all the power and control. YOU make the rules. YOU are God. everything starts and ends with YOU. YOU are limitless and YOU can do this <3 !

Rave & Star <3 .

one example of the 3D being a mirror/reflecting the 4D is like a progress report except it shows how you been acting internally.

Hey pretty how are you doing,in the most respectful way, will you be my sugar baby. Kindly DM and how much you need right now?🥰❤️

I am underage!!! yall need to stop sending me this. From now on if the asks have nothing to do loa/shifting/awareness then I WILL NOT BE REPLYING!!! I DO NOT WANT TO BE ANYBODYS “sugar baby” now respectfully STOP FLIPPING SENDING ME THIS

just made my likes public 🎀⭐️ !!!

DAILY REMINDER‼️: who a self made bad bih? YOUR A SELF MADE BAD BIH

My IT Girl Playlist So Far ( updating everytime I find a new song)

1- Ariana Grande: God Is A Woman

2- Ariana Grande: Just Like Magic

3- Aliyah’s Interlude: IT GIRL

4- Megan Thee Stallion: Cocky AF

5- Nicki Minaj: Super Bass

6- Nicki Minaj: Did It On Em

7- Nicki Minaj: Feeling Myself ft Beyoncé

8- Future: You Da Baddest ft Nicki Minaj

9- Nicki Minaj: I Am Your Leader ft Cam’Ron & Rick Ross

10- Nicki Minaj: Favorite ft Jeremiah

11- Nicki Minaj: I’m The Best

12- Ciara, Nicki Minaj: I’m Out

13- Doja Cat: Woman

14- Flo Milli: Conceited

15-Nicki Minaj: I’m Legit

16- Nicki Minaj, Drake: Truffle Butter

17- Nicki Minaj: Hard White

18- Meghan Trainor, Nicki Minaj: Nice To Meet Ya

19- Queen Key: My Way

im a portrait and you are a doodle 🙃🎀

This is the most real thing I’ve ever read in my life. That probably makes no sense and I know that but I also don’t care  I also really just like the fact that this person was able to control the colors because every time I watercolor, it looks like somebody just put paint in a cup of water and just poured it on a piece of paper